Missed Opportunity

Bisexual, hetero-romantic. That's the label that I settled on for myself, sometime last year; but then I thought maybe pansexual, heterosexual-romantic was more accurate. When it comes to sexual attraction, I'm all over the place but when it comes to relationships, I've only been with cisgender men. Lately I've wondered if the reason that I…

Sex, Drugs, and Justin Timberlake

“How can you show love, to those past versions of yourself?”, the question my therapist asked me 2 weeks ago. We’d been discussing my feelings of shame towards those younger versions of myself…those versions of myself that partied, had (mostly) safe sex, and even did some recreational drugs (not counting marijuana in that group)…ya know,…